Frequently Asked

Create an account, join as a member, and submit a profile, for yourself or for a family member. Bhanu personally reviews every profile within 3–5 business days. Once yours is approved, you can browse other profiles and express interest, and Bhanu makes every introduction herself.

Yes. Your last name, phone number, and email are never shown to other members. Only Bhanu and the site's administrators can see them, and ID documents are stored privately and used only for verification. Other members see your first name, photos, and the profile details you choose to share.

One membership covers everything: full profile browsing, submitting a profile for yourself or a family member, and expressing interest. There's no separate fee to submit a profile.

Families from anywhere in the world are welcome. Bhanu is based in New Jersey and works with NRI families worldwide. Membership prices are currently listed in US dollars.

Bhanu reviews every profile personally, typically within 3–5 business days. If anything needs adjusting, she'll tell you why, and you can update and resubmit.

Your interest goes to Bhanu first, not straight to the other family. She reviews it and, when it feels right, reaches out to both families personally to make the introduction. Neither side ever sees the other's contact details.

Yes. Parents and relatives are welcome to submit a profile for a son or daughter. When the time is right, the bride or groom can take over their own profile through a secure invite link.

Yes. You can request a pause at any time from your account, with a short reason. Once Bhanu approves, your profile is hidden from browsing, and you can reactivate it whenever you're ready.

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